Well, today CG we just talked about Love. Last week was? ....er...dating if i nt mistaken. Well, as usual, we had each a turn to share what was LOVE in our hearts. As in our opinion on what love is all about.
Well, so far we categorized love into about 3 parts. They are "Friends Love", "Parental Love", and "Godly Love". Well since everybody had their own set of answers, i'll probably just list down the few that really....made me think quite alot. hahahaha....
What is love? To me, when i was younger, love was like....a taboo? its like when a guy gets close to a girl den people will start saying, "Woooo U love that girl...", those type of childish stuff and all which i believe we all go thru it. Love when i was younger....was like....i 'owned' somebody. as in she/he 'belongs' to me. Get my idea? Lolz....and then you can go and showoff and all; that u 'own' someone. Hahahaha pretty childish thoughts eh?
Well, as i grow, i tend to realize that love is more about sacrifice, time, care, and the ability to see people's strengths pass their weakness. As in see their good rather than their flaws. In relationships, now, i believe, when 2 people are into a relationship, i believe the most important thing is the ability to sacrifice and spend time together no matter what the consequences is. Well, at least that is what i expect now if i ever have a girl. U don't want the girl you be with always busy, always not around and all. The only time u get to talk to him or her is via sms. This is like..."Hey i'm getting into a relationship with my handphone???" Lolz....
Well parental love and godly love is more....hmmm...more meaningful i would say. Parents are always there to give u care, love, trust, hope, and they fulfill ur daily needs....NEEDS, not wants. Godly love is...is John 3:16. Read urself. hahahha....Or 1 Corinthians 13.
Well, in general, the word 'love' itself is too big to comprehend. Just cut it off to the small and more common pieces, and leave the rest to itself....
Why is love so complicated anyway? Lolz.
6 comments:
Hello, Jie jie here oh... Well I agree with you that the term "LOVE" is very huge and hard to explain sometimes. But no matter what, without it, it is very hard for us to survive either.. So just go with the flow and look more towards the positive side of it.
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very big subject haha. but its part of life n u'll live thru it as u did for er.. 19yrs? don worry :)
I saw your comment on my blog. Yea, great deal. I don't disturb u n ur frens, u don't disturb me. It's a deal. I wasn't planning to disturb your frens anyway.
I don't hate you and I don't want to fight. I dont think u're a bad person. I know you're probably a very nice guy to your frens. I just wana forget this matter, just like Eli. So pls, let it go. We need it.
and you're right. Eli does have exams too. We all have exams. That's why we need to forget about this matter or we can't study. So, I hope u will do what is right.
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